As a parent, you want every moment of your child’s life to be as enjoyable as possible. That may be why so many parents seem to completely lose their minds when planning birthday parties for their children. They go crazy over every tiny detail, sweating over the guest list and even setting up gift registries for their children.
You do not have to go to those extremes to create a memorable birthday party for your child. No matter what your friends and neighbors are doing, you can still make great memories and give your son or daughter a birthday they will remember forever.
No matter what your child’s age, one of the smartest things you can do is get them involved in the party planning process. Your son or daughter should not simply watch the planning from the sidelines – getting them involved will raise their excitement and level and make for a better party.
From designing the invitations to developing the guest list, your child can help in almost every aspect of party planning. You can also talk about possible party themes for the upcoming celebration. Make sure your child is on board with what you have in mind – do not simply assume that your young daughter would love a princess party or your son longs for a pirate theme.
You and your child can also discuss possible venues for the birthday party. Perhaps your child has a special play centre in mind – a place with video games, delicious pizza and fun activities. Maybe they want to hold their birthday party at a trampoline park where they can run, jump and play with their friends.
Maybe your child prefers something a little more unusual, like a birthday trip to an animal farm where they can meet and touch friendly barnyard creatures. This kind of theme party is a natural for animal lovers, but other kids may like it as well.
Your child may even want to help design the menu for their birthday party. There will obviously be ice cream and cake, but would they prefer pizza, chicken nuggets or hamburgers and hot dogs on the grill. As the parent, you will need to take any food sensitivities into account.
If you are planning a theme party, you can make the food and drink part of the overall theme. A pirate themed party, for instance, might include a pirate’s chest filled with juices, sodas and other drinks. You can make your daughter’s princess themed party even more special with a castle shaped cake.
When it comes to the guest list, remember that smaller is often better for young children. For children in the 3-5 age range, a large gathering could be overwhelming and even frightening. Keeping the guest list to close friends and family members is probably the best approach.
Keeping the party short is also a smart move when planning a birthday party for young children. An hour or so should be plenty of time for the gathered toddlers to enjoy a piece of cake and a dish of ice cream.
As the kids get older, the parties can get longer and more elaborate. Your ten year old will probably have the stamina to enjoy an hours long birthday party at the local party centre or trampoline park, while his or her younger sibling may not.
Throughout the party planning process, it is a good idea to include the kids and solicit their ideas. That does not mean, however, that you cannot include a surprise or two along the way. Every kid loves to be surprised on their birthday, and that extends beyond the presents on the table.
There are plenty of ways to make your child’s birthday party extra special without breaking the bank or driving yourself crazy. If you are having a party in the backyard, simply hiring a magician to entertain the kids can make the celebration more memorable. The kids will be transfixed by the magic tricks, and the birthday boy or girl may even get a chance to be the magician’s assistant.
You do not have to make yourself crazy to plan a wonderful birthday party for your son or daughter. The trend toward expensive and elaborate birthday parties is certainly interesting, but you do not have to join in the madness. Checking with your child and respecting their wishes can help you create memories that will last long after the party is over.
Author: Bonnie Conrad
Bonnie Conrad is a freelance writer living and working in Pennsylvania. She has been writing professionally since 2004.